This Thanksgiving was a reunion of sorts. Nicholas came home for break, and my dad came to visit, too. It had been five months since we last saw him when we went to Houston in July. Since that time, a lot had elapsed. We had a presidential campaign. Nicholas and Cate went back to school. We lost the election. And so many other significant events had occurred - many of which caused any number of us great consternation.
That is why it was so lovely to connect and just enjoy each other's company. We went for walks. We ate out. We watched a lot of football and soccer. It was incredibly enjoyable and relaxing - just what we all needed.
Today, I dropped Nicholas and my dad off at airport. They had similar flight times, and so I was able to do it in one trip. Since Nicholas flight was later and because my dad had a heavy bag without wheels, I asked Nicholas to forgo TSAPreCheck and go through regular security with my dad, so he could help him to the gate. Nicholas graciously obliged and got grandpa to the gate safely. This gesture was emblematic of full circle between fathers and sons - when roles get reversed and the son or the grandson becomes the caretaker.
I am so grateful to be a son and a dad. It has been the joy of my life to be loved and love. I will always be thankful for this year's Thanksgiving with two amazing men. I love you, dad and Nicholas!
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